I'm feeling less

Do you ever feel mean? Well I do. For some reason as of late, I have this strange want to " tell it like it is". I hate being this kind of person...Yet it makes things much easier. Also, I have this little voice in my head that tells me that people are being rude...When sometimes they are not. Am I just a bitch? Yes...And no. Take for instance the rude dicks that I work with. Subject A is my pal. Subject has me throw them a big ass party. This party was something I was totally willing to do for this person. It cost me something like $300. This person never actually said thank you. This person is now acting like the queen of Target world. One in which She used to go on how I was so mistreated and that she would never talk down to me like the managers do...Yet alas...Yesterday I come to work to hear her telling me that " You don't know what it's like to be doing a job your not paid for" and than for her to be telling me what to do! Bitch of me to get upset about it...Yes. Rude of her to try to tell me what to do? Yes. So what the hell to do? I could do two things:
1. Forget it, and remember that this is only a job and they need me and not the other way around?
2. Talk to her...Possibly solve problem
2a) Solve nothing and get my ass kicked for trying

What to do about that place in general is confusing to me. I know I wont always be there, but it feels like if I can't make it at Target...Than where CAN I make it?